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By: JipCJeanne
Mood: Mellow
Date: Jan 31, 2013
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The first day I was on here and I entered the chat room it was great. Lots of people happy and chatting and wanting to get to know each other. They made you feel like your one of them, but as the days go by and I enter the room, it feels like it has an overwhelming saddness to it.

It feels as if there are people that just want to blah all the time....and that's fine....that's their right but, how bout accepting some smiles, or fun, have a laugh, don't be so bummed! It brings others down in the room.

Don't forget a laugh is great medicine! Don't be afraid to crack one now and then! It is the best medicine!!!

Am I the only one that feels this way? Please let me know cause I come here to chat and cheer up and I hope that I still can.



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January 31, 2013, 5:10 pm

 Yah I guess i understand that now. Thank you for clarifying it for me. I will probably just come in when I have an issue to discuss and get feedback on. 

It's just hard hearing so many other issues when your trying to forget your own i guess. 

Thanks again everyone!

 



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From: Happydoo
January 31, 2013, 4:02 pm
You said about the depressed making other feel more depressed, isn't the point of this place to help each other, offer advice if you can give it and try and be there when others may need it, just like if you needed to vent and wanted someone to listen and give you some support they would offer it back. I life posting on this page bacause I know (or atleast hope) that I won't get judged and people will offer advice who are in or who have been in similar situations. Depression has so many aspects to it, and not everyone is able to laugh and joke when they feel so bad. Laughing might be a great medicine, but it doesnt come so easy to all of us.

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January 31, 2013, 3:07 pm

 Thanks everyone for the responses. I appreciate them. I'm not judging anyone at all I wasn't sure what to expect when I first came in but I guess i was expecting to be a little different then it is. Bre I wasn't attacking anyone in the room and everyone has been very nice to me, I was talking about the atmosphere in general. Sorry you misunderstood what I was trying to convey. 

I was talking about the depressed getting more depressed hearing about others misfortunes. It's hard to do for me i guess. 

Thank you!



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January 31, 2013, 2:28 pm

 hi jip 

im sorry were all not always happy over bubbly people , remember this is a depression web site, we all have issues some days are blah and other are bubbly fun , i hope you come in more often and get to know all of us , this place does help ive been coming here for along time and can say with out tribe i wouldnot be here

tammy  aka tammy leafs

 



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From: Cassis
January 31, 2013, 2:20 pm

 Well said sasha :)

 

No one means to make you feel unwelcome Jip, but if you come in and the mood isn't right for you, it's ok to leave, and if it is right, we would love for you to stay.  When you aren't enjoying chat try exploring the other aspects of the site.



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January 31, 2013, 1:55 pm

Chat is also a place for people to find a place where they can discuss their fears and gain a fresh look at their problems.  The chat ebbs and flows..some days are light hearted, some days some users need to vent and perhaps others need to just sit and not say anything to feel apart of something bigger.  Much like having guests to keep them company without the need to entertain them.  This is a depression chat room and all that goes along with depression happens.  We also like to support eachother when it is needed.  I am sorry you dont fell comfortable in chat.



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From: Happydoo
January 31, 2013, 12:38 pm
Hi, I don't use the chat, but I guess in chat you can speak and get an imediate response, so if someone is wanting some imediate support because they are feeling down, then they arent going to be all,happy. I keep my sadness in my blogs, but I know that imediate sipport is not always given when you write a blog. So if people need to chat, they are going to turn to the chat, if someone is in a real bad place, they might not be able to let themself have a laugh. I guess you just have to be there to support others when they need it aswell as get the support for yourself. If you've found anyone in particular that is helpful for you, who you feel could cheer you up when seeing what is in chat isnt what you want tto see at the time, try messaging them direct. Like I say I dont use chat so done know what goes on in there or whats said. I how you can get what you want from this site. :)

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