By: Kellylouise
Mood: Frustrated
Date: Nov 26, 2012
Music: It's Just One Of Those Days

My boyfriend and I have been together for around 19 months and recently he told me to chose between him and my best friend (who is a male). I stupidly texted my best friend then and told him we could no longer talk see other or anything at all, and so now we don't. But I'm losing it, really losing it.
One of the worst parts is that we both work together, and being so physically close to him but not being able to talk to him just tore me apart. I know that I was stupid to completely ditch him for my boyfriend but i panicked and did not know what else to do.

How do I get them to like each other, and for my boyfriend not to scare off my friends.



November 29, 2012, 2:48 am

Thanks Love, that's a brilliant idea, but i'm scared that if i even try to do that he will just think that i'm trying to be with him instead.


'follow the spiders? follow the spiders? why couldn't it be 'follow the butterflies'?'

November 26, 2012, 5:17 am

Sounds like your boyfriend might be jealous and not respecting you or your personal space.  Not someone I would want to be with.  Maybe he's not doing it on purpose to hurt you but since it is something that is not fair to you, you should tell him that, talk to him, be open and honest.  I know, easier said than done but if you allow him to treat you that way and make those decisions you're only depriving yourself of your own needs, which is not a relationship.  You and anyone deserve better than that, that's not love or caring about someone.  It's control.


Let me never fall into the vulgar mistake of dreaming that I am persecuted whenever I am contradicted. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson