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my depression and an ADHD child

By: wild_flower1979
Mood: Don't know
Date: Jul 19, 2007
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I have been dealing with depression and anxiety for the better part of my life. Everyday is a struggle to remain happy on the outside while I am being eaten away on the inside. For the past year my 6 year old has been diagnosed with ADHD. He is a very intelligent child, but requires alot of stimuli to keep him from jumping around like he has ants in his pants. Aside from the ADHD he also has anger management issues. My son can be the most loving little boy until he gets upset. He has striked out towards his younger brother, been kicked out of day care twice and was threatened to be kicked out of school because of his behavior. All this is so overwhelming. I always push my problems aside while I try to deal with him and his problems. It just doesn't seem fair for him to have so many problems at such a tender age. Alot of times after my kids go to bed, I will stay up and cry wondering where did I go wrong. I doubt my past choices and think maybe if I had tried harder I would have turned out to be a better mother. Both of my boys have different fathers and that just makes things worse. My 6 yr old doesnt get to see his father because according to him "he has a life and is too busy". That doesn't help my stress level when my son goes to crying because he wants to see his daddy. I have wanted to tell my son that his father is actually a no good POS but I have refrained from doing so. At least for now. WOW- I feel better just getting that out.


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Jul 19, 2007, 12:19 pm
You know you really can't blame yourself. If you've had anxiety and depression its a good chance genetically your children inherited the same tendencies. Depression I've been told is Anger turned inward. Your son may need some serious counseling and medical support, I'm not sure at that age that I'd entirely trust medication. (I've been diagnosed with adult ADD/ADHD and the meds made a huge difference when I was in college.)

But that is as an adult. I think getting someone who can help your son develop coping skills would be better plan (if you can, check around lots of programs these days for ADHD.)

And yeah not having time for his own son sounds like a worthless kind of person.

Check into some support for yourself if you haven't, as well and keep fighting for yourself and your kids. Much strength and God Bless (if you aren't bothered by that.)

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Jul 19, 2007, 10:49 am
No wonder you are dealing with deppression and axiety. I am being treated for anxiety disorder. I am taking effexor xr which thank got has been working great. I have a 22 year old son that has just started with panic attacks and of course blamed myself because i had them. What ever problems your son may have it is not because you are not a good mother.Please think about getting help for yourself because it will be alot easier to deal with everything else. Good luck to you and hand in there.

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