hi paula i when you started packing you found had more stuff then woy thought , one,s of the cat,s i had climed up my leg but it was my fault i patted my legand up he went he was called jazz ,yes i miss my cat smudge as well he used to fight anything in sight doggy included he used to like table tennis ball,s he would chase them all over the house wot about your cat smudge , i will have find you a nice picture as well , lot,s of love and hugs paulxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
OH I AM GLAD you stopped by my page. I've been meaning to get over to yours all day. so many distractions.
How are you going my lovely. Lets not lose touch now that i am not in teh chatroom. Ok.
I think i had something else i wanted to say but its not coming to me right now.
Take care
love andrea
Thank you for adding me to your friends and complimenting my page. I have put a lot of my emotions into it. You need to get to work on yours. Go to the Media tab an get started, Mack.
Peace,
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Time is but markers that Man made apparent to the Soul. It is but a faulty measure for things it does not know! ~Me~
Thanks for your kind words! I have to go out shortly so I will try to reply to you properly a bit later if I have time. But just wanted to thank you for reading my contribution to the debate and it's nice to know you appreciated it! I think you're probably right about therapists and professionals. I've been told many times that it has all got to come from within myself and I am slowly beginning to accept myself and my limitations and like myself more. The main worry I have about therapists expecting people to get better is that there are sadly vulnerable people who may never find the strength within themselves to change their lives and overcome their depression, anxiety or whatever mental illness they suffer. I'll probably write more about this later. But, anyway, thanks again for getting in touch and I hope you have a good day! :) Best wishes, Steve
Hi soul
You long post on the debate was excellent. I am sure others will think so if they get to read it too. A thougthful and well considered response is always going to be welcomed i am sure.
I wanted to make a comment about what you said about not getting reassurance from psychiatrists and therapists.
Its deliberate. You are meant to learn how to solve your own problems, take responsiblity for your own experience and not be so reliant on others reassurance for your sense of self worth.
Start reading books about therapy. It might help you more. I read widely and a lot all through my therapy and i am sure it is one of the reasons it worked for me.
Although its not about therapy i would also recommend you read the book Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway. I have just read it and i am using it to help me feel good about starting this business project. When i had my first business, i did not feel the fear but this time i do. This book and other self-helps and all that i have learned since i began treatment are helping me tackle this.
btw i would never had started my first business without therapy, although its something i have wanted to do for a long time.
Hi Paul, my cat Smudge is doing well at the moment. He's sitting next to me right now. In fact he's just climbed onto my lap - and I mean climbed.....with his claws, ouch! Good job I've got thick jeans on, lol. I'm really coming down with a cold, I can feel it in my head and my chest. But the depression is OK the moment. We moved half my furniture and most of my belongings to Mark's last night. Now I've gotta unpack it all! I've done quite a lot, but there's still loads to do. I'm really tired so I think I'm gonna have a sleep in a bit and then carry on later. How's your dog, how are you? I'm gonna find you a nice festive picture for page now xxx