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Numbed.

Mood: Frustrated
Date: Nov. 07, 2008
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i have had failing relationship upon relationship.  the men i meet turn out to all be alike.  they act like they are so sweet in the beginning and then turn out to be emotionally retarded.  at the end of the relationship i end up feeling like the breakup was all my fault.  i feel like i was the main contributor of the falling out.  and i then in turn feel stupid, used, hurt, hopeless, unloved, abandoned, rejected, ugly.  it is a no-win situation.  after this relationship i will not get into another one for a long time.  i do not want to go through the heartache of this again.  i sometimes believe that i am better off alone.  as of now i feel numb.
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From: CrystalB
Nov 10, 2008, 10:10 am

 I agree with you that a lot of men seem to be emotionally retarded, and I totally understand your frustration. I wish they had to wear a sign on their forehead or something. A big "L" branding maybe. It's so hard to know how a man will deal with a relationship until you get into one with him. 

I wonder if you're like me, and fall in love too quickly, before you get all the facts. I don't know how to stop myself from falling for a guy so quickly, but I do think that it does hurt me. 

You know that you're not alone in this, and that there are people here, myself included, who want to talk to you whenever you need to. Maybe taking a break from men for a while is a good idea?
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From: Steen
Nov 08, 2008, 04:11 am

Hi there honey,

 

You know it sucks I know it sucks - give yourself some time and space learn to love yourself just a tiny bit more.  Like you I am my own worst enemy and have pushed people away often in the past (and been pushed away I have to say).  I finally found someone who won't be pushed despite my having done some terrible things to him  He is here and he is strong and he loves me.  It is out there - I know that is no comfort but try to enjoy your life how you want to live it in the here and now and love that shutting your own front door and being who you want to be feeling.  I am here if you need me darling.  Steen xxxx
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From: sopherdorph
Nov 07, 2008, 03:57 pm

Hi, I am 63 years old and have had 9 failed relationships in my life.The last one was a man I chose because I was not "in love" with him" and he was very nice and attentive.I moved out after 3 years when he told me "he did'nt love me like he used to".I don't know what it is maybe my depression got boring to him.The rest of them were choices based on my low self esteem or attraction to addicts and other losers.I think until I get it straight with being OK alone with myself my life will remain lonely.I am making progress though .Being numb is OK it beats freaking out.My future good relationship will be with me cause I need some Love.As for men maybe next life.You are not alone.
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From: lilmissbored
Nov 07, 2008, 03:45 pm

I know how you feel.. being single is so much fun!
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